Nollywood star Bolanle Ninalowo has shared some intimate details of his marriage.
The 40-year-old actor who is happily married with children opened up on his past mistakes in his marriage while chatting with Seye Kehinde.
Responding to a question about his marital life, Bolanle Ninalowo said:
I honestly don’t like talking about my marriage but all due respect to you. I have messed up a lot honestly. I would tell every woman out there; the worst thing that can happen to any woman out there is dating a dreamer.
A dreamer is a lost person especially when the other person doesn’t even know that much. I took advantage in any way I could. I just thank God I came out in flying colors. I made mistakes, but I am not defined by those mistakes.
I can’t change the beginning but I can change the ending. For my marriage: loving my wife and kids is not a favour to them but to me. You are not doing anybody favours when you are doing the right thing.
But I used to think otherwise when I was young. I used to think I was doing my wife a favour by loving her but I understand better now. A life of peace is a choice. Nobody is smarter than any other person. Everybody is capable of doing what you are doing, so it’s all a choice.
I grew up to that level. I also can’t judge the next person because our journey is different, so the moment you know it is all about you and your choice, you will be fine.”
Speaking further, he stated:
‘Well, I am highly grateful to God. The most important thing is for people to see me and believe there is God. Let people see me and say oh, there is nothing God can not do.
I want people to see me and believe there’s hope because I have been through a lot and to come out this way and have all I have now. I believe in God and He is good all the time…”