Getting a hot girlfriend or just picking up girls, in general, is all about self-improvement just as much as it is about learning and practicing tricks that you learn. If you want to become the type of man that women desire, you’re going to have to actually do it.
There’s no way to fake something like this.
You should always be trying to improve yourself, because improvement means better and girls are attracted to better men. They desire men who have particular traits, and in turn do not want guys who possess other ones.
For example, confidence and ambition are two great examples of traits that women look for in a man, whereas hesitation and laziness are a couple that they generally dislike.
The first step in improving yourself and becoming a better man is to properly identify your good and bad qualities so that you can determine which areas of yourself need to be improved the most, and also those that could use a bit of polishing.
Get out a pen and paper and write down the top 5 good qualities that you have that you think help you with getting girls, then write down your top 5 qualities that you think stop you from getting where you want with women.
After you’ve done this you should begin to work on improving your bad qualities so that you can bring them into line with your good ones, which will make you a more well-rounded and attractive individual.
You should also focus on using your good qualities more often now that you have identified them, because that will help you succeed more often with women. Even if your best qualities aren’t on the “top list” of things that women desire in men, that’s fine. You can work on getting those sorted out later.
Your own personal positive traits are always important to highlight.
This may seem simple but just give it a try, if you have never really thought much about your personal traits then you may find that there is really a lot more to your personality than you know.
