In a recent video shared on his Instagram story, popular Nigerian rapper, Sodiq Abubakar Yusuf, better known as CDQ, shared his thoughts on why many women remain unmarried. He expressed that bad advice from friends and negative assumptions are major factors that influence their decisions.
According to CDQ, women are wired to love, while men are wired to hustle. He believes that when a man confesses his love and shows his affection by calling and buying gifts, some women tend to believe that the man’s love diminishes when the frequency of these gestures decreases.
CDQ noted that this is a wrong assumption, as men’s brains are wired to focus on their hustle, and this does not imply that their love has diminished. He explained that men try to win women over, but after being together, their brains switch to the next thing, which is often their hustle.
The rapper’s advice to women is to seek wise counsel from good friends and avoid making assumptions about their partner’s feelings. He emphasized the importance of understanding that men’s brains are wired differently from women’s and that women should not let negative assumptions ruin their chances of a happy relationship.
In conclusion, CDQ’s advice to women is to be mindful of the advice they receive from friends and to communicate openly with their partners to avoid misunderstandings. His insights remind us that communication and understanding are key factors in maintaining healthy relationships
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